Drama.

[velvetpage]

After the day I've had, I wouldn't be surprised if I decided to avoid drama by crocheting - only to have the yarn yell at me.

*sigh* There has been a minor cleaning up of the friends list. It was mostly a few sock-puppet journals that weren't being updated anymore, one that was that I wasn't finding time to read, a community or two that were pretty much dead, one or two people whose lives I never got into and who never commented in my journal, and one person who could have been a friend, if she hadn't decided to act like a spoiled child instead.

Debate: do I leave the post open, thereby potentially creating drama, or do I lock it and let other people tell her what I've said about her? Open - I have no desire to be passive-aggressive this evening. It's not like my opinion is a secret at this point.

My crochet hook is calling me. It's probably going to tell on the yarn for unraveling all over the couch.

Comments

[merlyn4401.livejournal.com]

Leaving it open is guaranteed to make everyone go scurrying off to your user info to see if they have been cut. :)

hehe

[brightflashes.livejournal.com]

exactly! I'd suggest a simple direct confrontation with the person. There might still be a chance to patch things up. But what do I know - I've been trying to patch things up with the "biomom" for 26 years. Sometimes you just need to let people go.

Re: hehe

[velvetpage.livejournal.com]

I did the e-mail confrontation already. Like I said, the passive-aggressive thing isn't doing it for me.

[velvetpage.livejournal.com]

The person in question already knew she'd been cut, and had already cut me. I probably should have mentioned that in the post. :)