Since when has the media treated political candidates with deference?" Is she living on the same planet as everyone else?
I have very deliberately not posted anything about Palin here up until this point. I wasn't crazy about the nasty speculation or the internet feeding frenzy that followed it. But this is a legitimate campaign issue, so it's different. It's fair game.
Lady, you've entered a two-month-long job interview with the American people. (Note: the other candidates have been in this job interview for about a year already; you're the latecomer to this game.) At job interviews, people look at your credentials and judge them against the job requirements. They ask hard questions and judge you on your answers. They're polite, usually, but they do not show deference. That's reserved for people who get the job and rock it. You're not there yet.
Get over yourself and put yourself out there where the people can interview you and decide if they want you as their second-in-command. Anything less isn't just bad politics - it's proving that you don't have what it takes to do the job. A little word to the wise: it isn't likely to win you any votes, and it definitely won't win you any favours with the press. They're going to paint you as a fainting flower for this, with a lot of justification.