Y'know... a lot of what she says isn't necessarily terrible, except in the same way that Plato's Republic and every other utopian ideal is flawed. It discounts human nature. What is written there is so wide open to abuse, it is indeed scary. But then, if you're putting your faith in God to only give you what you can deal with...
Of course, I'm a firm believer in the world not giving you more than you can deal with as well... but I'm also a believer in "God helps those who help themselves" and I don't see putting myself in a situation where abuse is so possible as a good thing.
This isn't to say I don't agree with some of the statements, and I was thinking the other day about Frazer and my's relationship. We have a very strong one, with a great deal of communication, discussion and advice shared back and forth. We take each other's opinions, feelings and goals into consideration. But in the end, if Frazer insists on something, I do it. Willingly, I might add, and it rarely gets to the point where he insists because since we are both so concerned about the happiness of the other, we tend to accomodate the other long before any need to insist presents itself.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that while this manifesto places limitations on women, there are implicit limitations on men as well - limitations that are not spelled out, but that are there at a fundamental level. I'm also saying that those statements leave a lot more room for individuality than they might at first appear.
Do I agree with this manifesto? No. Do I think that those that adhere to it are nuts? No. I can think of many instances where such a life could be incredibly fulfilling and healthy. Hell, I can see myself doing it without much trouble - a few choice statements aside. Just not where I live right now. But the fact remains, I don't think its for everyone... and the implication that everyone should follow this path to be most disturbing.
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Date: 2006-07-01 01:57 pm (UTC)Of course, I'm a firm believer in the world not giving you more than you can deal with as well... but I'm also a believer in "God helps those who help themselves" and I don't see putting myself in a situation where abuse is so possible as a good thing.
This isn't to say I don't agree with some of the statements, and I was thinking the other day about Frazer and my's relationship. We have a very strong one, with a great deal of communication, discussion and advice shared back and forth. We take each other's opinions, feelings and goals into consideration. But in the end, if Frazer insists on something, I do it. Willingly, I might add, and it rarely gets to the point where he insists because since we are both so concerned about the happiness of the other, we tend to accomodate the other long before any need to insist presents itself.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that while this manifesto places limitations on women, there are implicit limitations on men as well - limitations that are not spelled out, but that are there at a fundamental level. I'm also saying that those statements leave a lot more room for individuality than they might at first appear.
Do I agree with this manifesto? No. Do I think that those that adhere to it are nuts? No. I can think of many instances where such a life could be incredibly fulfilling and healthy. Hell, I can see myself doing it without much trouble - a few choice statements aside. Just not where I live right now. But the fact remains, I don't think its for everyone... and the implication that everyone should follow this path to be most disturbing.