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velvetpage) wrote2007-07-18 01:33 pm
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This made me mad.
Thirty-nine-year-old singer and mother of three Faith Hill is on the cover of this month's Redbook. Except that her image has been photoshopped into a completely different look from the real her. Arm fat, tummy fat, back fat, the lines of love and laughter and life, a great tan - all gone. No wonder women end up striving for unattainable weight goals, never satisfied by their appearance.
Be sure to follow the annotated link at the bottom for exactly what they did to the picture.
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hillarygayle for the link, and whoever she got it from -
wayfarersgirl, I think.
Be sure to follow the annotated link at the bottom for exactly what they did to the picture.
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I had an accquantance tell me that he thought a women over size 4 was fat. So what does that tell you ? I should metion that he was a European and I do notice that they tend to be thinner than Americans. I also noticed that at resturants they don't give you much food.
Butt anyway, not to get too side tracked; I thought that Faith didn't even look human, I mean her arms had like no bones structure. Hell she was already thin ! Well at least you will teach your daughters that these images are bullshit.
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Europeans usually don't have America's distorted sense of portion size, and their culture involves a lot more walking and other sports than ours does. I have been known to seek out European restaurants because I know I'll get the right amount of food there. I mean, most women could fit the occasional Happy Meal into their diet and have the right number of calories per day, but more than that is just too much - and that's just at McDonald's!
However, that said, I was at a healthy weight for my body structure all through high school, and the smallest I ever was since graduating out of the girls' sizes, was an 8.
I'm in a difficult position. I want my children to be healthy. I want them to eat their vegetables and keep the number of sweets down and exercise. Keeping to a good weight is a part of that, and I'm not exactly a good example in that regard. On the other hand, I don't want them to feel that the only way to be beautiful is to be too skinny for their bone structure. Elizabeth in particular has a stocky build, and she's tall for her age; she's never going to be petite. Claire might be, especially if she continues to look like her paternal aunts and eat peas like they're the last food on earth, but even so - I want the focus to be on good health as a road to true beauty. It's a fine line to walk.
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I've NEVER found the model type beautiful. But on the other hand not very one can be beautiful on the outside. It just doesn't work like that. But having said that people have different ideas of beauty, also not everyone is like me and needs to have a women that they are physically attracted to.
I'd say that the best thing to do fro your daughters is to help make sure that thye are cool people on the inside. That really counts for a lot.
Having said all of that I know that you are already doing that.
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So if he means by '4' what 4 means in upscale stores that cater to middle aged women? It's not that ridiculous of a statement. Uncompromising and thoughtless, but not ridiculous. If his '4' is the '4' of an expensive, trendy boutique that caters to teenaged girls, that's pretty insane.
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What I'm getting at here is that the disparity of sizes has gotten so bad that it's better to talk in measurements -- assuming that you know what the measurements mean, of course. I once knew of a kid who was under the impression that 90ZZ was the bra size of a petite, busty woman, rather than of a giantess.
Unless someone can prove to me that they know what they mean by 'size 4', and that it means the same to them that it does to me, I'm mostly going to discount what they say. Except maybe to point out that they themselves don't meet the standards they're setting, because usually the sorts of people who say these things don't. :P
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I really liked her face untouched - I thought it had tons more personality.
It's pretty damn offensive they way they feel they have to change an attractive, talented person like that.
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Secondly, why don't celebrities sue the pants off magazines that do this kind of thing? (Redbook is arguably futzing with one of Faith Hill's trademarks--her visage--aren't they?) Or do magazines protect themselves by preserving "photoshopping rights" when they present a contract to a celebrity for such a shoot?
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Since I finished high school, I've fluctuated between a size 12 and a size 18. I've never had any trouble finding attractive, smart, interesting men who wanted to date me.
Truth be told, most of the men I've ever dated were thrilled to be with a woman who didn't constantly obsess about weight and her diet or hide her body under the sheets when they were having sex.
I've been reading women's magazines since I was 11, and I've never gone on a diet. To me, someone telling me I'm fat is as ridiculous as telling me I'm six feet tall or that I have red hair. It's not true. I'm not about to go home and think "OMG, I REALLY AM SIX FEET TALL" and I'm not about to go home and think "OMG I REALLY AM FAT."
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... Although I don't like the 'totally smooth perfect' look, because it looks fake to me. Also, the thing that some people do of making people's eyes crisp and white scares the hell out of me.
The thing that bothers me is not that this stuff happens, but that people pretend that it doesn't. If we were all totally honest about what is done to make the models look as good as they do, then no one would expect themselves or other women to be able to look that way naturally.
Remember that the photographer and whoever photoshopped the image (if the photographer didn't to it) are professionals who are paid to make the models look as good as possible. That is their job. The same way that you or I wouldn't be shy about editing the crap out of our writing to make it as good as we needed to without giving a thought to all of the young writers who might hold their first drafts to unrealistic standards as a result, they have to do what they have to do to the photographs.
(I am a little annoyed about the fat thing, but at the same time, I know that excess weight bulging out around clothing doesn't look very good at any size. Probably this could have been better solved by wearing clothes that fit properly, but what can you do?)
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The first time I noticed this was when Sam started drawing me. He'd set me up under harsh lighting (so that he could get interesting shadows to work with), and when he'd take breaks, I'd look at the drawings and they never looked anything like me. The body was mine, but the face wasn't. It wasn't until after I did some photographs for the Yar! hat that I realized that the shadows weren't Sam being a crappy artist -- they were the result of the light. Once I took them out, the girl in the picture started looking like me again.