That kind of thinking makes my brain cave in as I try to work my way through all the pitfalls of it. What if they get raped? What if the boy they marry isn't as virginal as he appears? What if the boy they marry ends up fooling around on them - all it takes is once, after all? Bottom line - I'm not going to subject my daughters to the vagaries of someone else's punishment for sin. (Which is a long way of saying I agree with you. :)